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Monthly Archives: December 2013
You Lie
I spent the holidays last year helping my husband figure out his new battle with “the whore”. We hired a lawyer and started learning about restraining orders. My history of being the “google queen” was paying off and I was … Continue reading
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Tagged Affair, Court, infidelity, Lies, love, restraining order, whore
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Talking In Your Sleep
I have had problems sleeping the last year, serious problems. I can go to sleep fine usually, but every morning I’d wake up at two or three o’clock in the morning and my demons would be there waiting on me. … Continue reading
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Tagged Affair, cheating, Healing, love, Marriage, Sleep deprivation, Sleeping disorder
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Marry Me
My niece got engaged yesterday, and I am so happy for her, really I am. Last year I would have been too bitter…too jaded to be happy for her. I would have thought “Don’t do it…marriage is hard, … Continue reading
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Tagged Advice on Marriage, Affair, Engaged, Happiness, Healing, Infidility, love, Marriage
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We’re A Happy Family
Yesterday I was making candy and thinking about how different this year is than the previous… Last year I walked around in a fog, and I don’t remember much. I remember being really, really fake, and I hate being fake. … Continue reading
All I Want For Christmas
Today Laney told my husband ” Alls I’s want for Christmas is for you’s to never go back to work, and to stay home with me…” A year ago we thought my husband would have to go back to work … Continue reading
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Tagged Affair, children, family, Healing, infidilty, love, Marriage, struggle
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I Get A Little Bit Stronger
I had been taught hard lessons the first 6 weeks after Dday (discovery day), and my husband was getting ready to learn them too. One was there are truly evil people in the world…people who are so self-centered, so eager … Continue reading
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Tagged Affair, infidilty, lessons learned, love, restraining order, right, Surviving an affair, wrong
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I’ll Be Home For Christmas…
My husband was stuck in up north for a week last year. He was waiting on his boss, her “cries of wolf” which had changed back and forth, needed to be sorted out. He was unable to get a flight … Continue reading
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I’ll pray for you
I have a bunch of things to say. I’m going to be the bigger person, bite my tongue and move on. I don’t have time for drama in my life, and I won’t let people bring me down to their … Continue reading
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Tagged Affair, friends, God, inspire, love, Marriage, Prayer, Relationships, Surviving an affair
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Okay one more rant and then I will get back to “the story”. This is MY blog, I get to write what I want as long as it’s my truth. It is all my truth you know, my view into … Continue reading
My Favorite Chocolate Chip Oatmeal Cookies
I was given this recipe when I was 15, and have loved it ever since. I made it so much you can’t read the recipe anymore, it is a stained piece of paper, and yet it … Continue reading
