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Sunday Morning
Just leaving this here for my friends walking down the same road I traveled…. Someday it will be better. You will heal. You won’t hurt every minute of every day. You will move on. And you will be okay, some … Continue reading
The Long Way Around
Went to see the Dixie Chicks last night… It was a little surreal listening to them live, and screaming/singing ‘Goodbye Earl’ and ‘Not Ready To Make Nice’ with them. Their cover of ‘Landslide’made me tear up. Maybe it should be … Continue reading
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Crossroads
I was asked a question last night… “How did you survive it all? The rough time in you marriage and stay married..” It wasn’t a judging me question. Or a nosey question. It was a “hey I need some advice … Continue reading
Story Of My Life
Maybe the trick is to tell it until you are immune to the pain? Until you build up your tolerance to the heartache… When you can be separate yourself from your “story” and look back but not relive it? When … Continue reading
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7 Years
Once upon a time there lived a little girl named Lou… She was the heart and the light in her broken family. Innocent. Funny. Happy. But for how much longer? That has been the thought in my late night, can’t … Continue reading
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Lost Boy
Happiness… Is it funny, ironic? That the ONE thing we have all been searching for, when found is maybe the scariest part of healing? We used to take happy for granted, at least I did. Now a bunch of my … Continue reading
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Broken As Me
Question I’m most often asked? How I found my happiness again… Most the time I’m not asked in person, although you’d probably be surprised the number of people who have asked me. When you write an open blog in a … Continue reading
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What Hurts The Most
“Hi…my name is Kelly and I am a betrayed spouse…” “Hi Kelly…” “I’m 809 days into my recovery.” “And?” Asks Bob my inner therapist. “And I’m okay?” “And Okay is good enough?” Questions Angry Kelly from the audience. “Okay is … Continue reading
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Tell Me Why
A sweet friend sent this to me last week. She knew I was angry. She knew I was struggling. She knew I wanted answers, and the frustration I felt in having none. No answers, at least none that explained to … Continue reading
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