Tag Archives: Surviving an affair

Broken As Me

Question I’m most often asked? How I found my happiness again… Most the time I’m not asked in person, although you’d probably be surprised the number of people who have asked me. When you write an open blog in a … Continue reading

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What Hurts The Most

  “Hi…my name is Kelly and I am a betrayed spouse…” “Hi Kelly…” “I’m 809 days into my recovery.” “And?” Asks Bob my inner therapist. “And I’m okay?” “And Okay is good enough?” Questions Angry Kelly from the audience. “Okay is … Continue reading

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Tell Me Why

A sweet friend sent this to me last week. She knew I was angry. She knew I was struggling. She knew I wanted answers, and the frustration I felt in having none. No answers, at least none that explained to … Continue reading

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Time After Time

I wore my mother’s wedding dress. How’s that for a clichĂ©? I wore my mother’s wedding dress, and I was married in my grandma’s little church. My sister stood beside me, my maid of honor…his cousin stood beside him. It … Continue reading

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You Found Me

“So assholes and death, Kelly, huh?”Bob asks me. “Yep.” “Nothing else bothers you about September?” Bob questions. “Nope…” “Hmm, I think you are pushing things down again Kelly,” Bob advices,” If I remember right it doesn’t usually end well.” “Bob … Continue reading

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Holiday Road

I’m getting ready to go on vacation. It’s a whole mess of triggers in its self, but I refuse not to go…I love the beach. I’m not going to talk about the triggers today, I’m dealing with the lingering whispers … Continue reading

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Forgiveness

I love people who think forgiveness is easy…you just decide to forgive and BAM it’s done. Magic fairies fly out of your ass with their wands, a couple of waves, a little magic fairy dust and you have forgiveness in … Continue reading

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