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Walk On
I once read a book about a woman who claimed, her husbands affair was the best thing that happened to her. I’ve talked about it before. Total rubbish in most regards, but I read it because finding anything about coming … Continue reading
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Rose Garden
My knockout roses have died… If you remember, I once talked about having dozens of them surrounding my house. 26 Knockout Roses to be exact. Pink, Hot Pink, Coral, Yellow and regular, mini, and drift roses. They got a disease … Continue reading
I’m Moving On
Saw the whore’s car the other day… The one I’d daydreamed about shitting on. If we’re being honest? I once upon a time in Alaska had to use ALL my self control, as an adult and mother of four, not … Continue reading
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Heathens
I saw this and I loved it. One of the hardest parts of all this was coming to terms with how awful people can be. It made me paranoid. It made me clam up, and close up the best part … Continue reading
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Sunday Morning
Just leaving this here for my friends walking down the same road I traveled…. Someday it will be better. You will heal. You won’t hurt every minute of every day. You will move on. And you will be okay, some … Continue reading
Oh Henry
Today is my 22nd wedding anniversary… Do you think it’s too late to ask for a refund? “Hey Osage County courthouse, I’d like my $20 dollars back, this license you gave me was defective…in fact it didn’t work at all!!” … Continue reading
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The Long Way Around
Went to see the Dixie Chicks last night… It was a little surreal listening to them live, and screaming/singing ‘Goodbye Earl’ and ‘Not Ready To Make Nice’ with them. Their cover of ‘Landslide’made me tear up. Maybe it should be … Continue reading
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Crossroads
I was asked a question last night… “How did you survive it all? The rough time in you marriage and stay married..” It wasn’t a judging me question. Or a nosey question. It was a “hey I need some advice … Continue reading
Story Of My Life
Maybe the trick is to tell it until you are immune to the pain? Until you build up your tolerance to the heartache… When you can be separate yourself from your “story” and look back but not relive it? When … Continue reading
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Happiness used to live here...surviving an affair 